Jeremy apologized, but this turned out to be the last apology I would hear from him. Over the next few weeks, Jeremy helpfully announced all the things I did wrong, and the things that were wrong with me. In other words, not only did I do things the wrong way, I was the wrong way. When I objected — I hadn’t asked him, after all, what was wrong with me — he didn’t apologize, but explained that the only way to improve myself was to follow the teachings of This One Guy. He would be doing me a disservice if he didn’t point these things out. What are friends (or wannabe cult leaders) for if they don’t show you all the ways you could be bet…